The Program: Step 2 - Your ProblemFor a simple way to look at nice guys' dating problems, they break down into five possible types. They also seem to build on each other, after you solve your "type 2" dating problems, you may have "type 3" dating problems. On the other hand, you may not.
Dating Problem Types
Type 1 Problem: You don't meet any womenIf you're not meeting any women, then you're not getting out. Period. I just moved out of Silicon Valley, an area notorious for dating difficulties, and even there I always met women.
Type 2 Problem: You don't meet any women you're interested inThere are a number of reasons why you may not be meeting women you're interested in:
Type 3 Problem: You meet women that you're interested in, but they're not interested in you at allThis is not a common problem for most nice guys, but it does happen.
The reasons for this are often fairly obvious:
Type 4 Problem: You meet women that you're interested in, but they're not interested in you "that way"This is one of the most common problems for nice guys...and one of the most difficult to solve. This is where I'm going to be spending most of my efforts.
Signs that this is your problem include having heard phrases such as:
Type 5 Problem: You meet women that you're interested in, they're interested in you, but they end up thinking of you as "a great, great" friend.Type 5 is something of an addendum to Type 4.
Signs that this is your problem include:
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